125 What to say to a Victim Conflict Personality-Type

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“Get down of the cross honey, someone needs the wood.” Dolly Parton

Drama Debbie is in the house, and her martyrdom is impacting everyone.

The victim conflict personality type can impact everyone within earshot,   they can be easy to dismiss and tough to deal with directly, don’t get caught chasing the shiny in their drama web. 

In today’s episode, we dive into what you can do to redirect drama Debbies’ impact on you and the workplace.

Real change, real growth can happen, and here’s how

What you’ll hear on today’s episode:

  • The victim conflict personality type
  • How the martyr works
  • Graceful detachment
  • Redirecting behavior
  • The power of what you can control
  • The verbal processor
  • What to say
  • How we react
  • The conflict triangle, triangulation

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